The bits of your life together you'll forget if you don't write them down
Keep a shared journal for the trips, the in-jokes, and the running tabs on what to do next weekend — and your own private one for everything else.
How couples tend to use it
Both write into the same space. The trips, the running list of restaurants, the in-jokes.
Stays yours. No automatic sharing. The two journals live next to each other, not merged.
Every weekend away gets its own page, its own map, its own little arc.
A shared page from a shared weekend
Both of you can write in. Both of you see the photos. The trip itself is its own little book.
The hike where the dog gave up
We made it about three miles. Theo lay down on the trail like a small protest. Carried him the last bit. Beautiful walk. Already talking about coming back in autumn.
Long weekend at the cabin
Friday → Sunday · 3 entries, 12 photos, 1 reluctant dog.
What's inside
Getting started together
- 1Each of you sign up
Two minutes. Each of you has your own account, your own private journal.
- 2Make a shared journal
Invite each other into one shared journal. Both write into it. Both can see everything in it.
- 3Tag the next trip
Mark a stretch of entries as a trip — a weekend away, a holiday, a road trip.
- 4Look back on the year
Open the shared journal in December. The whole year of you, in your own words.
Where it fits
Date nights, first trips, the inside jokes that are still warm. A page for the chapter you're in.
A shared journal that isn't a Pinterest board. Notes, decisions, the small wins.
Each of you writes into the shared journal. Read it like letters when you're back.
Year ten, year twenty, year forty. The journal still works the same way.
Frequently asked
Start the shared journal you'll be glad you started
Two private accounts, one shared page. Free to try.